tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post4773986514694283435..comments2024-03-19T00:15:10.156-07:00Comments on Bloom: Friday Forum: Avoiding a Mega-Commercial ChristmasBloomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15483990252015813307noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-13895282273859228302009-12-19T23:01:50.410-08:002009-12-19T23:01:50.410-08:00My ideas are so similar to the above posts.
I do ...My ideas are so similar to the above posts. <br />I do find that doing any activity together brings us closer around the holidays (making treats for others and decorating stockings) I usually have Christmas music playing soflty in the background and it sets a nice spirit in the home. Another thing we have done is taken a picture of Christ, added some ribbon, and have made it an ornament. It hangs in the middle of our Christmas tree with all the other ornaments reminding us what Christmas is about.<br /> I also found a wonderful book that I think ties in Santa to Christ really well (Joan I bet you would like it :) It is called "I believe in Santa Clause" by Diane G. Adamson. It tells how Santa's hair is white, comes in the night, brings gifts, wants us to be good, then switches to how Christ's hair is white (older version), how he was born in the night, how he wants us to be good. Any way I LOVE it and its a tradition for us to read. Check it out.<br /> I feel homemade gifts can also be great, however I get somewhat intimidated by homemade gifts since I feel I may not make it look as good as I envisioned. But you can give other thoughtful Christ like gifts. <br />One year to my family we gave the book I mentioned above, and then an ornament of Santa clause kneeling to the baby Christ in a manger along with some homemade movies we put together on a DVD for everyone. <br />I hope these ideas help :)Valeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05244270576403119862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-30197993525058221722009-12-19T13:48:43.621-08:002009-12-19T13:48:43.621-08:00Not sure about this one. I think some commercialis...Not sure about this one. I think some commercialism is okay, but putting big emphasis on the birth of Christ.<br /><br />Also, part of me kind of thinks no matter how much we push "be grateful! remember Christ's birth! the reason for the season!" our kids won't actually get it until they get Christ and his life (receive a testimony). So, it's more important that we share what we know about him during the year instead of making them feel guilty for being too excited about presents and Santa (speaking from my your:). So, as long as we're trying, right?<br /><br />Also, I was showing santa pictures to my son and realized this is the first time I openly lied to him for a long time. "Yes, his reindeer do fly." Weird feeling. <br /><br />I like your idea, Joan. Very good!<br /><br />ramble ramble ramble.Abbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10674890158799253076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-54749339337574783652009-12-18T22:30:05.321-08:002009-12-18T22:30:05.321-08:00We try to emphasize that Christmas is Jesus' b...We try to emphasize that Christmas is Jesus' birthday and because he is the most important person who ever lived his birthday is the biggest birthday celebration ever! It sounds trite and a bit casual but it simplifies things for my boys and helps them understand. <br />I find it difficult to mesh the two concepts of Christmas together: how does Santa fit in with the birth of Jesus? So, again...we just focus on how it is all in an effort to make the Savior's birthday party super special and magical. Santa just happens to be the one who delivers presents to us as a part of the birthday celebration. <br />Gosh, this sounds trivial and lame...but really it's just a fine line with children. <br />It has worked for us, anyway :) Hope some of you find these thoughts helpful.<br />MERRY CHRISTMAS, Bloom readers!Joanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01492629476225188410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-48897144127131808662009-12-18T16:37:11.409-08:002009-12-18T16:37:11.409-08:00We always buy presents for another family that is ...We always buy presents for another family that is in need. This helps the kids realize that the season is for giving. We always did it growing up and it's the part we look forward to the most even as adults with our own families! It's a great tradition to start and to pass on!Rasmussen Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09344202825556569669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-33562123572081758612009-12-18T14:18:33.207-08:002009-12-18T14:18:33.207-08:00I LOVE these suggestions! A couple of really simpl...I LOVE these suggestions! A couple of really simple things I have used:<br /><br />1) Rather than the traditional "What do you want for Christmas?" question, I always ask my kids, "What do you want to make 'so-and-so' for Christmas?"<br /><br />2) At the stores, the constant, "I want this" as we rolled down the aisles really wore on me. I suggested a simple, "Look at this!" ... MUCH nicer on the ears ;)Tanya Leighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03507138724842375204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-1047676394553542132009-12-18T06:52:32.512-08:002009-12-18T06:52:32.512-08:00There are so many ways to tone down the commercial...There are so many ways to tone down the commercialism of Christmas, if not avoid it altogether. <br />In my sister's family, they are all only allowed 3 gifts, since that's all Jesus got! Works great, especially if you have a big family like theirs. (7 kiddos!) <br />As for my family, we decided to do everything really BIG at Christmas--making tons of candy and cookies, delivering treats, looking at lights, decorating to the hilt, filling the house with music and the scents of evergreen and cider, doing advents, watching Christmas movies, Christmas stories, Christmas parties, and singing carols every night! It's all big, EXCEPT for the gifts. We've gone to handmade only this year, and everyone will make ONE thing for each other. I'm THRILLED with how it's really bringing the Christmas spirit into our home, even more than all the other "BIG" things we're doing. I've seen my girls just as excited to MAKE gifts for their sisters as I've ever seen them opening a present of their own. We've reserved "big" store-bought gifts and go crazy on their birthdays in order to maintain reverence for the birth of the Savior on His day.<br />It's the traditions that will make memories for ourselves and our children, not the stuff we buy them. Do you remember what you got for Christmas 5 years ago? I don't.Jonesyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12524291508991901570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-31707165241411385202009-12-18T05:31:51.858-08:002009-12-18T05:31:51.858-08:00Hi Anne
I think what you can do with kids is the ...Hi Anne<br /> I think what you can do with kids is the tradition of giving something (like theirs unwanted toys in good shape ) to the needy children . also just in general help others more especially during this time. And of course talk about and tell that there are so many people in need.. I think they will understand . And if they know Jesus and what have he done for people on this earth as they get older they will relate to this fact even more. But it has to be spoken to them every time..<br />Have a great Christmass!Forever Youhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17864795065240698759noreply@blogger.com