tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post4045596169912342417..comments2024-03-19T00:15:10.156-07:00Comments on Bloom: Birthday PartyingBloomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15483990252015813307noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-9637894681341260142011-04-10T22:25:26.714-07:002011-04-10T22:25:26.714-07:00Shelley - (I hope you see this!)
I used Anne's...Shelley - (I hope you see this!)<br />I used Anne's butter cream recipe for the frosting. In her words: "For butter cream frosting, memorize this ratio (it makes perfect butter cream every time!): 1 stick butter to 1 1/2 cups powdered sugar to 1 T milk. (Mix the butter and sugar and then add the milk.) For 24 cupcakes, you'll want to at least double that recipe. (I triple it since I pipe on such a huge layer of frosting!)"<br /><br />I just snipped the corner off of a ziploc bag and piped the frosting on.Bloomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15483990252015813307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-55158002056280042792011-04-07T12:43:24.615-07:002011-04-07T12:43:24.615-07:00Also, what frosting recipe did you use for the cup...Also, what frosting recipe did you use for the cupcakes. I love they way it swirls. Thanks!Shelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11999823822380614718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-28326634862901719122011-04-07T12:41:32.695-07:002011-04-07T12:41:32.695-07:00I enjoy the birthday parties for my girls. THEY s...I enjoy the birthday parties for my girls. THEY start planning for their next one as soon as one birthday is over. Yes, those ideas change 3,4, 100 times. But that is part of the fun for them. Following a theme is easiest for me. My girls help with the game planning and some decor. A low budgeted party is not hard to do, just get creative. Also, keep it simple. Like stated above, the kids just want to play. It's a party after all. :)Shelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11999823822380614718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-56621169408495842852011-04-07T10:56:52.044-07:002011-04-07T10:56:52.044-07:00I did an over-the-top (at least according to me) p...I did an over-the-top (at least according to me) party for James when he turned four and it was A LOT OF WORK. I promised myself never to do that again (at least not for my kids--perhaps for a wedding shower or something). Like you said, silly string and bubble gum and they are happy. <br />Thanks for keeping it real, Em.<br />If I re-label my water bottles for a party will you still be my friend?! hahah. j/k.Joanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01492629476225188410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-41141218943447554572011-04-07T07:28:35.616-07:002011-04-07T07:28:35.616-07:00ps. We also don't do a party every year! The...ps. We also don't do a party every year! They get their first "friend" party when they are 5... and don't get "friend" parties more than every other year.jeaninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13732103634683943293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-33046372739344162882011-04-07T07:27:05.883-07:002011-04-07T07:27:05.883-07:00I love all your advice... and have to add a big AM...I love all your advice... and have to add a big AMEN to all of it. The simpler the better for kids. Sometimes I think the parties are more for the parents than the kids! <br />Also, have something for the kids to do while everyone is arriving! When we did William's dino party I had all the dinosaur toys out in the living room for the boys to play with until everyone arrived.... or you could have a coloring sheet, etc.jeaninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13732103634683943293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-3374944439564934372011-04-06T22:20:22.690-07:002011-04-06T22:20:22.690-07:00My little guy just turned 2, so we're a ways o...My little guy just turned 2, so we're a ways off from having "friend" birthday parties. We do have a family party, which ends up being a pretty big crowd, though. Last year, I killed myself making homemade cake balls for hours for our ball themed party and was so exhausted that I missed a lot of fun things that I regret now (like getting a picture of me and my husband with our birthday boy!) This year, we kept it more simple- had the cake made by a friend, went bowling on a Saturday morning (the best time for my toddler), ordered pizza. And it was a blast!Barbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17983045210766395899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-9707955269300652502011-04-06T10:36:25.202-07:002011-04-06T10:36:25.202-07:00(Hee-hee, apparently my comment was too long for o...(Hee-hee, apparently my comment was too long for one post!)<br /><br />5. Games and Activities: Always have something simple for them to do as guests arrive. Coloring a themed picture works great for little kids. Use some sort of party ice breaker game for bigger kids. If you choose to do a craft, keep it as simple and age-appropriate as possible or you will be helping every individual kid figure theirs out (we made a robot out of styrofoam cups and pipe cleaners once, and you wouldn't believe how long it took six-year-olds to figure that out!). Most classic party games can be adapted to whatever theme you choose. Some sort of treasure hunt or relay race is almost always a winner. You should have at least five or six activites planned, just in case some take a lot less time than you thought they would. But always be flexible--judge your audience, don't be afraid to skip some of the activities on the list and be sure to allow for some sort of free play time. One of my nine-year-old daughter's favorite parties was a "beach party" where they basically just played in the sprinklers the whole time! I've also found "storytime" to be a great way to wind the younger kids down at the end. There are plenty of princess, fairy, pirate, or other character-specific books out there that the kids get a big hit out of. We never do pinatas anymore. I think they're over-rated.<br /><br />6. I should have said this first, but yes, absolutely get some help! Send whatever younger or older kids you can off to their friends or ask a neighbor to babysit. If you don't have a spouse, relative, or friend available, ask (in advance) if any of the guests' parents can stick around and lend a hand. <br /><br />In summary, I agree that parties can be a lot of work, but the whole point of them is to make the birthday kid feel special and to create a cherished memory. All the rest is fluff. Good luck!Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12850867553658629051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-10248564608255679632011-04-06T10:35:38.876-07:002011-04-06T10:35:38.876-07:00We do birthday parties for each of our four kids (...We do birthday parties for each of our four kids (well, I guess the 3-yr-old hasn't had one yet) every year, and I have learned A LOT over the years! I have learned how to give an awesome party on a shoestring budget (usually less than $50). Here are some of my top hints:<br /><br />1. Don't start too early. I have learned that the bare minimum age to have an enjoyable party with friends is probably four, preferably five. Three year olds can't follow instructions, can't play games, miss their mommies, and occasionally aren't potty trained. This ends up in a lot of crying from both them and you.<br /><br />2. Pick a theme, but don't overdo it. If your kid wants a Tinkerbell party, buy the more expensive Tinkerbell plates, but use plain cups, a solid tablecloth, etc. Let them pick ONE special themed toy to put in their goodie bags, and then get anything else (candy or toys) at the dollar store. Streamers and a package of balloons taped to the walls and hanging from the ceilings are simple, cheap, easy, and make the place look super festive!<br /><br />3. Limit the number of guests! This is the most important thing to help keep your sanity and save your budget. I allow my children to invite one friend for each year they are turning. I can handle five five-year-olds just fine, but not fifteen of them! As my children get older and want to do more expensive things, like go to a party place, then they can only invite two or three friends.<br /><br />4. Food: I totally agree that many people go overboard here. I have learned to put less and less emphasis on the goodies. For one thing, just getting all the kids to sit down long enough to eat is a real hassle. They just want to play! If you want to make a cool themed cake, go ahead, but for efficiency's sake, make cupcakes. It saves you cutting and serving time, which takes far longer than it should! Also, I have found that a remarkably large number of kids DON'T EAT CAKE! Using cupcakes often reduces the amount of wasted dessert. I can't tell you how many plates of cake and melted ice cream I have thrown away nearly untouched. And I always serve Sprite or lemonade! Call me a party pooper, but I never have to worry about red or purple Kool-aid stains on my carpet. I have never had a kid complain!Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12850867553658629051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-72583090353034044832011-04-06T08:59:40.995-07:002011-04-06T08:59:40.995-07:00Liz: Your practical advice is gold. Such a great ...Liz: Your practical advice is gold. Such a great suggestion to hire a babysitter or recruit help -- you always need it! <br />And thanks for the pinata hint, too. I didn't even think of a pinata -- would have been a big hit (pun intended :)<br /><br />Natalie: your Kool-Aid comment made me laugh. And why am I not surprised that we're like-minded when it comes to party throwing? (wink!)Bloomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15483990252015813307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-88160299521565142352011-04-06T07:52:53.914-07:002011-04-06T07:52:53.914-07:00This is great advice, and the party was so cute (a...This is great advice, and the party was so cute (and not overdone -- what a relief!) ... Thanks for sharing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-46104352291887304842011-04-06T07:44:03.894-07:002011-04-06T07:44:03.894-07:00I appreciate your kids' party REALITY check! T...I appreciate your kids' party REALITY check! The party is for the kid, not for mom and her craftiness -- unless the kid truly loves that! Personally, even if my kid loved it, I think I would probably go a little bit crazy trying to put on some of the all-handmade parties I've seen around blogland.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02881734963401294721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-68200002930335523612011-04-06T06:17:47.170-07:002011-04-06T06:17:47.170-07:00I just realized that I misspelled "you're...I just realized that I misspelled "you're"...embarrassing. :)Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05579386461697607378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-28542560994986083032011-04-06T06:17:03.549-07:002011-04-06T06:17:03.549-07:00Your my kind of party thrower Em! Sometimes I loo...Your my kind of party thrower Em! Sometimes I look at blogs and think "Was this party for the child, or the mom's ego?" Not to be rude, there are so many talented, adorable ideas out there. But let's face it, kids...especially little boys, are usually the most excited by the tackiest things. :) Kool-aid. My boys think that's the nectar of the gods. I think it's disgusting, but hey, it's their party right? Thanks for keeping it real. Re-labeling bottles? Really?Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05579386461697607378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314654863949920054.post-75180864550605054402011-04-06T03:43:17.538-07:002011-04-06T03:43:17.538-07:00We are definitely on the same wavelength -- make t...We are definitely on the same wavelength -- make the party for the kids, not to impress the adults. My other suggestions: hire your favorite babysitter to help, or get some grandparents or a young aunt or a friend. I always need more help than I think I do. <br /><br />Also, I really like to feed kids something meal-like (hot dogs or pizza usually) but tend to overdo it -- one time we had hot dogs, chips, drinks, corn on the cob and watermelon, and guess who had about 10 extra corn cobs and half a watermelon left over? Keep the food simple! (I think the fruit and vegetable was me trying to impress the parents.)<br /><br />I agree that having the party somewhere is usually worth the money -- we've had great success with bowling. Another idea is to rent one thing (like a bounce house) that will keep the kids busy in the backyard the whole time. We did a dunk tank one time and it was hilarious and totally worth the money. The kids loved it. Our kids only have a party every two or three years, so spending $100 on a rental doesn't seem so bad to me.<br /><br />One last thing, my kids always think they need a pinata, and I've forgotten almost every time that you can't put hard candy in a pinata. It gets beaten to a powder. Maybe you're all smarter than me, but since I've done it more than once, thought I'd include that hint :)lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00635054930204348566noreply@blogger.com